HUMAN INTEREST / RELATIONSHIPS

SIX MISTAKES MEN MAKE ON THE FIRST DATE

(HOW TO GET A SECOND DATE)

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(AN) – There seems to be plenty of advice available from stellar dating gurus telling men how to meet and attract women. But what do you do after you meet them? What exactly do you do after you get that first date?

One guru, the anonymous Mr. L. Rx from the popular dating site, DatingToRelating.com, is also telling men what to do after they meet women for the first time.

In his new book “Dating To Relating – From A To Z” available on Amazon.com, Mr. L. Rx says, “The problem with most dating gurus is that they only tell you how to meet and attract women. They don’t tell you how to relate to them and keep them as girlfriends and wives.”

Of course, the popular Mr. L. Rx does just that. He advises men on everything from meeting them through making a girlfriend out of them and keeping them in sane productive relationships. On his web site, there is plenty of free advice, but you can also sign up for personal phone advice sessions at $2,000.00 an hour.

Men typically make several mistakes on their first date with a woman according to Mr. L. Rx.

Some of those mistakes listed on Mr. L. Rx’s website are:

· Talking about yourself too much. – “Try to be interested instead of interesting,” says Mr. L. Rx.

· Not asking questions about the girl you are dating and not listening to what she has to say is another big mistake.

· “Focusing too much on sex – either overtly or by innuendo – is a real killer on a first date,” reports Mr. L. Rx

· But at the same time not developing sexual flow or interest is another killer mistake. “You should be romantic and non-verbally sexy,” says Mr. L. Rx. “Your conversation should show a woman that you are interested in her – not just sex.”

· Not using “subtleties” enough is apparently a big mistake that practically all men make. “Most men do not even think in subtleties, much less use them,” says Mr. L. Rx, “but those that learn how on their own, or use the subtlety training in “Dating To Relating – From A To Z” will score lots of points on a first date.”

· Not creating future – A relationship by its very definition is all about future. You have to continually create future from the moment you first meet a girl, and especially during that first date. The moment a woman has no reason to see you again the relationship is over. “There are better ways to create future,” says Mr. L. Rx, “ than the typical -When can I see you again?”

Does the anonymous Mr. L. Rx know what he is talking about? Should we take him seriously?

According to Alexa.com, which ranks web sites popularity according to their traffic statistics, DatingToRelating.com has passed up both Neil Strauss’s (Neil wrote the New York Times Bestseller “The Game”) and Mystery’s (VH1 TV Show on meeting women) web sites in popularity. Both Neil and Mystery are stellar and long established “How To Meet Women” gurus.

So perhaps if you want to get some fresh new advice about dating, and particularly if you want to know what to do after you meet a woman, you should try visiting DatingToRelating.com.