{"id":11401,"date":"2017-05-24T09:03:00","date_gmt":"2017-05-24T09:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/2017\/05\/24\/a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome\/"},"modified":"2017-05-24T09:03:00","modified_gmt":"2017-05-24T09:03:00","slug":"a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome\/","title":{"rendered":"A Message To Inspire Women To Lead: Own Your Awesome"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-style:italic;font-size:16px\">By  <a class=\"colorbox\" href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/2017\/05\/24\/529684160\/a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome?utm_medium=RSS&amp;utm_campaign=sports\">Julie Foudy<\/a><\/span>  <\/p>\n<div class=\"ftpimagefix\" style=\"float:left\"><a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/2017\/05\/24\/529684160\/a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome?utm_medium=RSS&amp;utm_campaign=sports\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/media.npr.org\/assets\/img\/2017\/05\/23\/gettyimages-2111949_wide-5863b179d14ab5b3234449f003cce68f65966079-s1100-c15.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/a><\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/media.npr.org\/assets\/img\/2017\/05\/23\/gettyimages-2111949_wide-5863b179d14ab5b3234449f003cce68f65966079-s1200.jpg\">Enlarge this image<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<p>\n                Soccer midfielder Julie Foudy (right) cheers her teammate, Tiffany Roberts, during the WUSA All-Star Game on June 19, 2003 in Cary, N.C.<\/p>\n<p>                <b><\/p>\n<p>                    Al Bello\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>                <\/b><b><b>hide caption<\/b><\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><b><b>toggle caption<\/b><\/b><\/div>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>        Al Bello\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>    <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>People often ask me: What&#8217;s the best lesson you learned after almost two decades on the U.S. women&#8217;s soccer team?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m fairly certain they want the secret formula to winning. Instead, I tell them, the best lesson I learned is actually a secret about life.<\/p>\n<p>And that lesson came to me while watching my incredible teammates do their thing, on and off the field. Sure, I loved that they were amazing athletes, and we were winning World Cups and Olympics together. But I was most impressed that they were even more amazing human beings who led in a variety of ways.<\/p>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RES529695004\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK INSETTWOCOLUMN INSET2COL \" --><\/p>\n<p>Now that was a complete shock to me \u2014 the diversity of leadership styles \u2014 because I had always thought leadership was positional. I&#8217;d always thought leadership was a CEO or president or person in a position of power. And honestly, to me that meant a man \u2014 because that&#8217;s what I was reading about in history books growing up.<\/p>\n<p>But my U.S. teammates showed me that leadership is personal, not positional. They showed me that asserting your own leadership style is most important \u2014 being authentically you.<\/p>\n<aside>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<aside>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RES529694901\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK INSETTWOCOLUMN INSET2COL \" --><\/p>\n<p>You could be a quiet leader like Mia Hamm, a vocal leader like Abby Wambach (or, let&#8217;s be honest, &#8220;Loudy Foudy&#8221;), an emotional leader like Brandi Chastain, a cerebral leader, a nerdy leader, you get it. You just had to find your unique approach, your way. No need to be a celebrity or a leadership expert, you just had to care enough to raise your hand.<\/p>\n<p>Ah, yes, that whole raising your hand bit. It can be scary for women.<\/p>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RES529694443\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK MEDIAPROMO PRIMARY\" --><\/p>\n<p>We love to make sure all the boxes are checked \u2014 that we aren&#8217;t just prepared, but over-prepared<em><\/em>before we raise our hand. It&#8217;s that discipline that I love most about women, but it&#8217;s also what holds us women back the most because by the time we raise our hand, that opportunity is often gone.<\/p>\n<p>Yep, we women are great at underselling ourselves, and not so great at owning our awesome. My motivation in life is to get all women to unleash that inner force.<\/p>\n<p>Not in the sense that you have to wear a T-shirt proclaiming your awesomeness, or walk around telling everyone you&#8217;re the bomb diggity, but in a way that allows us to step out of our comfort zones, stand up for something or speak out for someone.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you empower one person or the free world, that is<em><\/em>leadership. Because if I can own my awesome \u2014 and you can and we can get more young people to do it, too, and then use that to do some good \u2013 well, that&#8217;s a world I want to live in.<\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s start now shall we? Go on. Go be courageously and fabulously you. Because you can.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/blockads.fivefilters.org\/\">Let&#8217;s block ads!<\/a><\/strong> <a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/blockads.fivefilters.org\/acceptable.html\">(Why?)<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Source:: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/2017\/05\/24\/529684160\/a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome?utm_medium=RSS&amp;utm_campaign=sports\" class=\"colorbox\" title=\"A Message To Inspire Women To Lead: Own Your Awesome\" rel=\"nofollow\">http:\/\/www.npr.org\/2017\/05\/24\/529684160\/a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome?utm_medium=RSS&amp;utm_campaign=sports<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"ftpimagefix\" style=\"float:left\"><a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/2017\/05\/24\/529684160\/a-message-to-inspire-women-to-lead-own-your-awesome?utm_medium=RSS&amp;utm_campaign=sports\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/media.npr.org\/assets\/img\/2017\/05\/23\/gettyimages-2111949_wide-5863b179d14ab5b3234449f003cce68f65966079-s1100-c15.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/a><\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/media.npr.org\/assets\/img\/2017\/05\/23\/gettyimages-2111949_wide-5863b179d14ab5b3234449f003cce68f65966079-s1200.jpg\">Enlarge this image<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<p>\n                Soccer midfielder Julie Foudy (right) cheers her teammate, Tiffany Roberts, during the WUSA All-Star Game on June 19, 2003 in Cary, N.C.<\/p>\n<p>                <b><\/p>\n<p>                    Al Bello\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>                <\/b><b><b>hide caption<\/b><\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><b><b>toggle caption<\/b><\/b><\/div>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>        Al Bello\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>    <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>People often ask me: What&#8217;s the best lesson you learned after almost two decades on the U.S. women&#8217;s soccer team?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m fairly certain they want the secret formula to winning. Instead, I tell them, the best lesson I learned is actually a secret about life.<\/p>\n<p>And that lesson came to me while watching my incredible teammates do their thing, on and off the field. Sure, I loved that they were amazing athletes, and we were winning World Cups and Olympics together. But I was most impressed that they were even more amazing human beings who led in a variety of ways.<\/p>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RES529695004\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK INSETTWOCOLUMN INSET2COL \" --><\/p>\n<p>Now that was a complete shock to me \u2014 the diversity of leadership styles \u2014 because I had always thought leadership was positional. I&#8217;d always thought leadership was a CEO or president or person in a position of power. And honestly, to me that meant a man \u2014 because that&#8217;s what I was reading about in history books growing up.<\/p>\n<p>But my U.S. teammates showed me that leadership is personal, not positional. They showed me that asserting your own leadership style is most important \u2014 being authentically you.<\/p>\n<aside>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<aside>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RES529694901\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK INSETTWOCOLUMN INSET2COL \" --><\/p>\n<p>You could be a quiet leader like Mia Hamm, a vocal leader like Abby Wambach (or, let&#8217;s be honest, &#8220;Loudy Foudy&#8221;), an emotional leader like Brandi Chastain, a cerebral leader, a nerdy leader, you get it. You just had to find your unique approach, your way. No need to be a celebrity or a leadership expert, you just had to care enough to raise your hand.<\/p>\n<p>Ah, yes, that whole raising your hand bit. It can be scary for women.<\/p>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RES529694443\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK MEDIAPROMO PRIMARY\" --><\/p>\n<p>We love to make sure all the boxes are checked \u2014 that we aren&#8217;t just prepared, but over-prepared<em><\/em>before we raise our hand. It&#8217;s that discipline that I love most about women, but it&#8217;s also what holds us women back the most because by the time we raise our hand, that opportunity is often gone.<\/p>\n<p>Yep, we women are great at underselling ourselves, and not so great at owning our awesome. My motivation in life is to get all women to unleash that inner force.<\/p>\n<p>Not in the sense that you have to wear a T-shirt proclaiming your awesomeness, or walk around telling everyone you&#8217;re the bomb diggity, but in a way that allows us to step out of our comfort zones, stand up for something or speak out for someone.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you empower one person or the free world, that is<em><\/em>leadership. Because if I can own my awesome \u2014 and you can and we can get more young people to do it, too, and then use that to do some good \u2013 well, that&#8217;s a world I want to live in.<\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s start now shall we? Go on. Go be courageously and fabulously you. Because you can.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/blockads.fivefilters.org\/\">Let&#8217;s block ads!<\/a><\/strong> <a class=\"colorbox\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/blockads.fivefilters.org\/acceptable.html\">(Why?)<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11401","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sports"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11401","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11401"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11401\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11401"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}