{"id":2909,"date":"2012-08-04T19:08:27","date_gmt":"2012-08-04T19:08:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/?p=2909"},"modified":"2012-08-06T19:11:09","modified_gmt":"2012-08-06T19:11:09","slug":"how-to-talk-to-women-dating-to-relating-for-men-8612","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/how-to-talk-to-women-dating-to-relating-for-men-8612\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Talk To Women – Dating To Relating For Men – 8\/6\/12"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201cDating To Relating For Men\u201d<\/strong> is a weekly dating advice column for men with releases scheduled every Monday.<\/p>\n

“Dating To Relating For Men\u201d<\/strong> is created and authored by Mr. L. Rx and released exclusively through AssociatedNews.US. Mr. L. Rx is one of the preeminent men’s dating advice gurus, with the second most popular men’s dating advice site on the internet (DatingToRelating.com<\/strong>) and several popular books such as his dating bible for men – Dating To Relating – From A to Z<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Dating To Relating For Men- Advice By Mr. L. Rx<\/strong>\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

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Mr. L. Rx is the author of the popular DatingToRelating.com website and the author of the popular book \u201cDating To Relating \u2013 From A To Z\u201d. <\/strong>Have a question? Send it to Column@DatingToRelating.com<\/strong> and it may be selected for answer in this column. <\/strong>(Sorry all questions can not be answered.)<\/p>\n

Question: <\/strong>Mr. L. Rx, how do you talk to women in order to attract them?<\/p>\n

Answer:<\/strong> Now, I have a question for you. What do you mean by talk? Do you mean actual communication? Communication is talk that results in someone understanding what you are saying, from your point of view.<\/p>\n

But there is another type of talk. Talk aimed at producing a result. It is aimed at getting someone to do something or it is aimed at creating an effect on someone. We don\u2019t really care if the person understands our viewpoint as long as what we said gets them to do or be or have whatever it is we want them to do or be or have. Any parent knows that if you tell a two year old \u201cnot\u201d to do something, he will do it. So that is the type of talk we are referring to with this definition. It doesn\u2019t require understanding. It is just a matter of what we say produces the desired effect on another.<\/p>\n

Casual talk on the other hand, doesn\u2019t have much to do with understanding, or a particular desired effect. (Unless we say that the desired effect is a pleasant time while conversing with another.) Casual talk is just something to do to take up time; it can be interesting and entertaining even, but not much to do with understanding or a desired effect on another outside of a pleasant time conversing.<\/p>\n

Then there are those people who talk to achieve emotional release. They talk about something that is bothering them for a while and they feel better and get an emotional release. They again are not looking for any type of understanding, or to create a desired effect on another, or to have a pleasant time with another. They just want someone who will listen long enough so they can get an emotional release.<\/p>\n

So right there we have at least four different purposes to or types of \u201ctalk.\u201d<\/p>\n

Now oddly enough, personality factors intersect with these various different types of talk, because some personalities specialize in one of the types of talk more than the others.<\/p>\n

We all have the friend who just talks and talks about their problem trying to achieve some emotional release. They don\u2019t want your advice or attempts to solve their problem. They just need to talk.<\/p>\n

We all have the buddies that we can just shoot the breeze with. Nothing in particular to talk about. Just pleasant conversation.<\/p>\n

And we all have good and bad experiences with people who say things in order to get us to react in one way or another.<\/p>\n

Now here is where personality comes in again. Obviously if you were talking to a woman who was a personality type that specialized in emotional release \u2013 you would attract her by listening to her unburden herself and achieve emotional release. If you were talking to a personality type that just like to have a pleasant time \u2013 then chatting in a pleasant way about nothing in particular would score you big points. Just don\u2019t bring that conversation into \u201cunpleasant\u201d realms and you will do just fine on \u201cattraction\u201d.<\/p>\n

Now if you are with the type of personality that needs to create effects on you or needs an effect created on herself, then let them do so or do so to them and you will do fine on the attraction vector. And if you are with the type of women who longs for understanding and being understood, then achieve understanding in your conversation and you will achieve attraction.<\/p>\n

Mr. L. Rx<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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