{"id":31002,"date":"2022-06-08T19:45:00","date_gmt":"2022-06-08T19:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"\/p\/terrence-real-explores-how-enlightened-self-interest-saves-relationships#id31961"},"modified":"2022-06-08T19:45:00","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T19:45:00","slug":"couples-therapist-terrence-real-whose-clients-include-bruce-springsteen-rails-against-the-toxic-culture-of-individualism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/couples-therapist-terrence-real-whose-clients-include-bruce-springsteen-rails-against-the-toxic-culture-of-individualism\/","title":{"rendered":"Couples therapist Terrence Real, whose clients include Bruce Springsteen, rails against \u201cthe toxic culture of individualism.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p>When your partner is in disrepair, it&rsquo;s like you are working at the customer-service window. Your partner says, &ldquo;I want a new microwave.&rdquo; They don&rsquo;t want to hear that your toaster doesn&rsquo;t work. They want you to fix their microwave.<\/p>\n<p>        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2022\/06\/06\/well\/family\/terrence-real-book-relationships.html?unlocked_article_code=AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACEIPuomT1JKd6J17Vw1cRCfTTMQmqxCdw_PIxftm3iWka3DLDm4ciPsYB4zH9U7IZK5yIMc-xS6WQtRMdaUiTfg3xOhYPAl3Rg2hvpqDno8FIj0u74KvW2d8l7T8YYcFyx64J\">&#x021A9;&#xFE0E; The New York Times Book Review<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/themorningnews.org\/p\/terrence-real-explores-how-enlightened-self-interest-saves-relationships\">View Post &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>        When your partner is in disrepair, it&rsquo;s like you are working at the customer-service window. Your partner says, &ldquo;I want a new microwave.&rdquo; They don&rsquo;t want to hear that your toaster doesn&rsquo;t wor&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31002","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31002","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31002"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31002\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31003,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31002\/revisions\/31003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31002"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31002"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31002"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}