{"id":3504,"date":"2013-12-14T08:33:26","date_gmt":"2013-12-14T08:33:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/?p=3504"},"modified":"2013-12-19T01:34:47","modified_gmt":"2013-12-19T01:34:47","slug":"the-thought-of-approaching-a-woman-paralyzes-me-dating-to-relating-for-men-121613","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/the-thought-of-approaching-a-woman-paralyzes-me-dating-to-relating-for-men-121613\/","title":{"rendered":"The Thought Of Approaching A Woman Paralyzes Me \u2013 Dating To Relating For Men \u2013 12\/16\/13"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201cDating To Relating For Men\u201d<\/strong> is a weekly dating advice column for men with releases scheduled every Monday.<\/p>\n

“Dating To Relating For Men\u201d<\/strong> is created and authored by Mr. L. Rx and released exclusively through AssociatedNews.US. Mr. L. Rx is one of the preeminent men’s dating advice gurus, with the second most popular men’s dating advice site on the internet (DatingToRelating.com<\/strong>) and several popular books such as his dating bible for men – Dating To Relating – From A to Z<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Mr. L. Rx is the author of the popular DatingToRelating.com website and the author of<\/strong> the <\/strong>popular book \u201cDating To Relating \u2013 From A To Z.\u201d <\/strong>Have a question? Send it to Column@DatingToRelating.com<\/strong> and it may be selected for answer in this column. <\/strong>(Sorry all questions can not be answered.)<\/p>\n

Question:<\/strong> Mr. L. Rx, I am not just shy, I am deathly afraid of women. The thought of approaching a woman that I am attracted to paralyzes me. What kind of advice can you give a guy like me?<\/p>\n

Answer:<\/strong> Well, if I was talking to you, I would ask you a bunch of questions to clarify what exactly it is that you are afraid of. But since I don\u2019t have that luxury, let\u2019s proceed as if you are a typical \u201cscared\u201d guy.<\/p>\n

Most guys who are scared of approaching are afraid of being \u201crejected.\u201d Rather than be rejected they would prefer to not even approach a woman. Some guys are only afraid of being rejected in front of other people, while many are afraid of rejection itself.<\/p>\n

The \u201cfear of rejection\u201d is simple to handle. Don\u2019t create a situation in which you can be rejected in the first place.<\/p>\n

Walking up to a woman and asking her for a date, or walking up to a woman and telling her how beautiful she is, and how much you are attracted to her puts you right smack dab in the middle of a \u201crejection\u201d scenario. Even light flirting can put you in a rejection scenario.<\/p>\n

Here is all that you have to remember: If a woman is attracted to you or likes you, she will keep the conversation or other interaction with you going. So the subtlest form of flirting or approaching is just talking \u2013 talking the same way you would talk to a woman that you weren\u2019t even attracted to.<\/p>\n

Then only when a woman shows you that she is interested in you (by keeping the interaction or conversation going) do you attempt to stick your neck out and flirt. If she doesn\u2019t show any interest at all, it is simple. Don\u2019t flirt \u2013 just keep it friendly.<\/p>\n

You might make a few mistakes on reading women, but if you approach it this way you won\u2019t get rejected very often. Better yet you will be able to read with fairly good accuracy when a woman is interested in you.<\/p>\n

So how do you begin such \u201cinteractions?” Well, ask the time. Ask directions. Give a nice friendly smile and a \u201chi\u201d to someone standing next to you in line. Talk about the weather or recent newsworthy events. Do and say things that friendly people do and say. This allows you to deny that you are flirting and prevents the possibility of \u201crejection.”<\/p>\n

Remember although these approaches may seem mundane, if a woman is interested in you she will find some way to keep the interaction or conversation going. That will be your clue. And if she doesn\u2019t \u2013 well, you are just a friendly guy. You weren\u2019t making a move or flirting so there is nothing to be rejected over.<\/p>\n

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