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SIX MISTAKES MEN MAKE ON THE FIRST DATE <\/strong><\/p>\n

(HOW TO GET A SECOND DATE)<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Focusing Too Much On Sex Is A Mistake On A First Date<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

(AN) \u2013 There seems to be plenty of advice available from stellar dating gurus telling men how to meet and attract women. But what do you do after you meet them? What exactly do you do after you get that first date?<\/p>\n

One guru, the anonymous Mr. L. Rx from the popular dating site, DatingToRelating.com, is also telling men what to do after they meet women for the first time. <\/span><\/p>\n

In his new book \u201cDating To Relating \u2013 From A To Z\u201d available on Amazon.com, Mr. L. Rx says, \u201cThe problem with most dating gurus is that they only tell you how to meet and attract women. They don\u2019t tell you how to relate to them and keep them as girlfriends and wives.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, the popular Mr. L. Rx does just that. He advises men on everything from meeting them through making a girlfriend out of them and keeping them in sane productive relationships. On his web site, there is plenty of free advice, but you can also sign up for personal phone advice sessions at $2,000.00 an hour.<\/p>\n

Men typically make several mistakes on their first date with a woman according to Mr. L. Rx.<\/p>\n

Some of those mistakes listed on Mr. L. Rx\u2019s website are:<\/p>\n

\u00b7 <\/span><\/span><\/span>Talking about yourself too much. \u2013 \u201cTry to be interested instead of interesting,\u201d says Mr. L. Rx.<\/p>\n

\u00b7 <\/span><\/span><\/span>Not asking questions about the girl you are dating and not listening to what she has to say is another big mistake.<\/p>\n

\u00b7 <\/span><\/span><\/span>\u201cFocusing too much on sex – either overtly or by innuendo – is a real killer on a first date,\u201d reports Mr. L. Rx<\/p>\n

\u00b7 <\/span><\/span><\/span>But at the same time not developing sexual flow or interest is another killer mistake. \u201cYou should be romantic and non-verbally sexy,\u201d says Mr. L. Rx. \u201cYour conversation should show a woman that you are interested in her \u2013 not just sex.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00b7 <\/span><\/span><\/span>Not using \u201csubtleties\u201d enough is apparently a big mistake that practically all men make. \u201cMost men do not even think in subtleties, much less use them,\u201d says Mr. L. Rx, \u201cbut those that learn how on their own, or use the subtlety training in \u201cDating To Relating \u2013 From A To Z\u201d will score lots of points on a first date.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00b7 <\/span><\/span><\/span>Not creating future – A relationship by its very definition is all about future. You have to continually create future from the moment you first meet a girl, and especially during that first date. The moment a woman has no reason to see you again the relationship is over. \u201cThere are better ways to create future,\u201d says Mr. L. Rx, \u201c than the typical -When can I see you again?\u201d<\/p>\n

Does the anonymous Mr. L. Rx know what he is talking about? Should we take him seriously? <\/span><\/p>\n

According to Alexa.com, which ranks web sites popularity according to their traffic statistics, DatingToRelating.com has passed up both Neil Strauss\u2019s (Neil wrote the New York Times Bestseller \u201cThe Game\u201d) and Mystery\u2019s (VH1 TV Show on meeting women) web sites in popularity. Both Neil and Mystery are stellar and long established \u201cHow To Meet Women\u201d gurus. <\/span><\/p>\n

So perhaps if you want to get some fresh new advice about dating, and particularly if you want to know what to do after you meet a woman, you should try visiting DatingToRelating.com. <\/span><\/p>\n