{"id":568,"date":"2009-03-28T02:19:17","date_gmt":"2009-03-28T02:19:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/?p=568"},"modified":"2010-08-07T00:47:57","modified_gmt":"2010-08-07T00:47:57","slug":"body-language-to-attract-women-and-maintain-relationships-dating-to-relating-for-men-33009","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/associatednews.us\/content\/body-language-to-attract-women-and-maintain-relationships-dating-to-relating-for-men-33009\/","title":{"rendered":"Body Language To Attract Women And Maintain Relationships \u2013 Dating To Relating For Men \u2013 3\/30\/09"},"content":{"rendered":"

You may use the \u201cDating To Relating For Men\u201d column in your newspaper, magazine, or website royalty free <\/strong>as long as you do not edit out any information, and you make sure the attribution (AssociatedNews.US) and the copyright (2009 Dating To Relating, Inc.) are clearly legible within the column. You may only use the column royalty free in your newspaper, magazine, or website. It may not be used in any books, book compilations or collections without our express permission.<\/p>\n

\u201cDating To Relating For Men\u201d<\/strong> is a weekly dating advice column for men with releases scheduled every Monday.<\/p>\n

“Dating To Relating For Men\u201d<\/strong> is created and authored by Mr. L. Rx and released exclusively through AssociatedNews.US. Mr. L. Rx is one of the preeminent men’s dating advice gurus, with the second most popular men’s dating advice site on the internet (DatingToRelating.com<\/strong>) and several popular books such as his dating bible for men – Dating To Relating – From A to Z<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Dating To Relating For Men – Advice By Mr. L. Rx<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Mr. L. Rx is the author of the popular DatingToRelating.com website and the author of<\/strong> the <\/strong>popular book \u201cDating To Relating \u2013 From A To Z\u201d. <\/strong>Have a question? Send it to Column@DatingToRelating.com<\/strong> and it may be selected for answer in this column. <\/strong>(Sorry all questions can not be answered.)<\/p>\n

Question:<\/strong> How does the body language you use to attract a woman differ from the body language you use to maintain a relationship<\/p>\n

Answer:<\/strong> How do the two differ?\u00a0 Well, for example, if you read the advice in most body language books you will see a lot of advice on using posture, stance, eyes, etc. to portray confidence. Women in general are attracted to confidence in a man. However, our guiding principle with someone that you have already established a relationship with is \u201ckeep doing whatever you did to attract the woman in the first place\u201d.<\/p>\n

Though it may be true that most women are attracted to men who portray confidence, perhaps your woman is not like the average woman and likes shy guys. Perhaps she was attracted to you because you didn\u2019t portray confidence around women. Well, if that is the case, then flirting with your girlfriend or wife may involve going back to those non-verbal clues that you used to give off about your shyness and lack of confidence. Perhaps since you got your girl, you are no longer shy and lack confidence with her and perhaps that is now a \u201cturn off\u201d or \u201cfailure to turn on\u201d for her.<\/p>\n

You have to go back to what worked in the beginning as a lower gradient each and every time you want to flirt with her or seduce her. Perhaps she likes it when you are shy and she originates sex with you. Perhaps you then can become aggressive and un-shy when you get to the higher stages of sexual interest.<\/p>\n

This is just an example. But the idea is to go back to your exact overall pattern of how you attracted her in the first place and the body language that worked for you in the first place. Obviously it worked.<\/p>\n

Now that doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t simultaneously listen to your mate. If she complains that you do not stand up straight, or that you don\u2019t walk along side of her or don\u2019t hold her hand, she is giving you big clues as to the kind of body language she wants to see from you.<\/p>\n

If you are smart you will pay attention to her clues and adjust yourself accordingly. It will undoubtedly please her and turn her on.<\/p>\n

Question:<\/strong> Mr. L. Rx, Can you actually meet women with personal ads?<\/p>\n

Answer:<\/strong> Well, yes you most certainly can. In fact I wrote a book entitled \u201cHow I Got 700 Dates In One Year\u201d and personal ads was one of the two methods I used and still use to generate hundreds of dates a year. Craigslist and Backpage are two of the best personal ad forums on the Internet and there are many newspaper that run personal ads too.<\/p>\n

In general, I find newspaper personal ads to work best but it does require a little bit of technique as most guys placing personal ads either get no or\u00a0one or two responses per week.\u00a0 Over the course of my getting 700 dates in a year I averaged over 50 responses a week with my newspaper techniques. But that is too long a story for this column. I suggest you get a copy of the book if you want to learn how to get that kind of volume of dates.<\/p>\n

Mr. L. Rx<\/p>\n

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